Happy or unhappy events
Wait before deciding
March 12th 2019
It is always difficult to decide what is good and what is not. Because something bad or wrong is not 'evil', and something good or right is not 'the good'. There are often events that at first seem catastrophic but turn out to be positive. And unfortunately, the opposite is also true: apparently happy events are transformed into catastrophes because people have neither the wisdom nor the mastery necessary to take advantage of these favourable situations.
When events occur, we cannot know whether with time, they will turn out to be beneficial or harmful to ourselves and to others. So when you suffer a setback or hardship, make the habit of telling yourself that down the line, something good might be waiting for you.